When your partner leaves you, the emptiness can be deafening. You want nothing more than for the pain to stop. So it's natural when your loved one begins showing interest again in renewing the relationship. It seems to be the answer -- just say YES, we're back together.
But, no, that is the wrong move. When a couple reconciles too soon after a breakup, the separation can become absolutely permanent if you get back together before you have worked out the problems that caused the split in the first place.
Message: Take you time; stay calm; let the pain of their absence stay for just a while longer. When the both of you are ready for a real reconciliation, you will know. Reconciling too soon is a desperate move that won't end well.
